I built you something.

Ben and Jil, back to back

For Jil

Valentine's Day 2026

You came from Berlin.

Jil in Berlin

I was in Philly.

And somehow, across 4,000 miles and a mountain of paperwork, we ended up on the same floor.

Road trip together

I remember that day.

The day you arrived

Neither of us could stop.

We built a home.

Fl. 5 — Benjamin & Jil La Rue

Fl. 5

I love date nights where you rest your chin on your hands and look at me like that.

Date night Ice skating at Dilworth Park

I love the mornings. The cold walks with coffee. The way this city looks when we're in it together.

Morning coffee in Philly

I love that you put on an Eagles jersey you didn't grow up with and scream at a TV in a Philly bar — just because I do.

You don't have to get it. You just show up.

Eagles game day
Marathon day

I love that you were waiting at the finish line, biting my medal like it was yours.

It was.

I love the purple hallways and the Euros and the beach days and every single ordinary Tuesday in between.

Eastern State Watching the Euros Beach day

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And then there were cats.

Cat silhouette Cats in the window Hiking with the cat Stream crossing Couch with the cats Frog hat family Kitten nap

They're not pets. They're our first family.

You're my lock screen.

My emergency contact.

My favorite face in every room.

Jil

I love you, Jil.

Happy Valentine's Day

— Ben